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Stop Making Young Children “Share” (It’s Not Developmentally Appropriate)
Picture this: Two preschoolers. One beloved truck. One very determined peer. And an adult voice swoops in with the classic line: “You need to share.” Before anyone clutches their “kindness matters” poster—hear me out. This isn’t a post against generosity. It’s a post against forcing a very adult social expectation onto very young brains… and then acting surprised when it turns into grabbing, tears, and power struggles. “Sharing” requires skills most young children are still
bekahb4
Dec 17, 20254 min read


Creating a Calm Down Corner: Helping Kids Navigate Big Emotions
Every child experiences big feelings—frustration, overwhelm, sadness, or worry—and those emotions can easily spill over into behaviors that feel difficult for both the child and the adults supporting them. A Calm Down Corner is a powerful, proactive tool to help children recognize their emotions and develop the skills they need to regulate themselves. Paired with simple, kid-friendly strategies—like the ones included in the Calm Down Strategies chart—you can give children a
bekahb4
Nov 17, 20254 min read


🌿 From Fear to Trust: Embracing Risky Play
Remembering Freedom Think back to your childhood. What are some of your favorite memories? If you’re like me (a millennial or zennial — depending on your definition, born in ’82), many of your favorite moments probably involved some form of what we now call risky play. Mine certainly do. I remember the freedom of being able to play independently, without constant adult supervision or strict rules. The top two that come to mind are: playing in my grandparents’ basement and exp
bekahb4
Oct 30, 20253 min read


Why Kids Under Six Don’t Need Organized Sports
In today’s world, it feels like childhood has turned into a race — a race to enroll, perform, and specialize before our kids even lose...
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Oct 8, 20253 min read


🌻 What I Pack in My Teacher Fanny Pack
Teachers do a lot every day — teaching, nurturing, organizing, and juggling a hundred little tasks that keep the classroom running...
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Oct 6, 20253 min read


🎒 5 Must-Have Teacher Bags That Keep You Organized
Being a teacher means carrying lesson plans, papers, supplies, and sometimes even lunch—all while staying mobile. The right bag can save...
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Oct 3, 20252 min read


The Power of a Visual Daily Schedule in the Classroom
If you’ve ever worked with young children, you know that structure and routine make a world of difference. Children thrive when they...
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Sep 29, 20252 min read


Lessons Teachers Can Learn From Hiccup
It’s the beginning of a new school year, and for many teachers that means welcoming a brand-new group of students. This can feel both...
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Sep 24, 20253 min read


The argument for SOME structured time
Children playing together in new ways in an assigned center I think we can all agree that we all believe that children learn best through...
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Oct 6, 20233 min read


Emotional Resilience Reality Check
soccer team shoes So I had a little bit of a reality check the other day. I was at my son’s soccer game and my son was not playing well....
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Sep 21, 20233 min read


The argument against children standing in a line
Ok, so I know I might get some hate for this one because I know it is a “go to” for a lot of teachers, but, having been in early...
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Sep 19, 20234 min read


Children did this yesterday…So they should be able to do it today, right?
Now of course we have developmental milestones that we are helping children reach so in some sense there is a certain amount of “a child...
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Sep 19, 20232 min read


Why you should not make children apologize
There seems to be this every present thought that any time a child causes harm they “should” apologize and teachers “should” reinforce...
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Sep 19, 20232 min read


I should be doing something because I am "super-mom"
The constant thought that unless you are doing something you are a failure. This week’s inspiration came from a moment that happened...
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Sep 18, 20232 min read
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